Happiness is to make yourself happy.

Happiness not lies in attaining the goals or desired hopes. It lies with what you are and your present scenerio and surroundings. I always point out the most relevant points in almost all my posts of spiritual and positive thinking.Spiritual people are least effected in their ups and down in thier life rather they are with the melodious tune with the almighty.

They adjust their present scenrio and are are contend and happy with thier life. We normal people has a swinging mood of happiness ana sadness. The strong people can be called who knows to adjust with materilastic and mundane and calm down their nerves to soothe thier inner soul and intellect. They never get annoyed, happy, sad and arrogant as they think themselves that they are the actors in the drama and link this life which is full of happiness and sorrow as their stage which they want to perform in any changing situation.

Spiritual people prayers differ from our prayers. They meditate and link with the god to have a loveful and sweet conversation with him as we pray only for our hopes, desires, achievement which is never to be get ended. We people are very selfish and only ask for more and more to GOD instead of thanking and grateful to him with our present life and comforts.

I can narrate the best example of my friend who always seem to be very happy to others since he is a only son of the big business tycoon. I once asked him that you are lucky of having a big business, prestigiuos life & good comforts, he complained that he is very back as against with his compitetors in his business. He want to become a No 1 in his business field. He always complain to GOD for lacking of his knowledge, experience, know how & expertise in his business as compared to his competitors and thats fore his mind gets confused and always to be found in dilemma stage. Though he tends to remain happy from outside but inside he is half complete and lost his feeling of senses.

I made him understand not to under estimate yourself, rather stop brooming aroung your problems and grievences. Console yourself first, work as per your capacity, have a faith in GOD, dont look up but always looks down the people that atleast you have that advantage to live in palace and having a rich palate of dishes and food. Dont complain to GOD and fell regress as compare to your competitors but thanks to almighty for fixing him in the banner of his under arms and to remain always with him in the pink of health.

He practised the way which I taught him and soon his perception and attitude of life got changed with the happiness and spiritual sparks which he had from inside which was also getting tuned with his outer appearance.