Monday, July 21, 2008

Confronting with Dreadful Relationship


Hi Folks, Here are some peaceful tips as to avoid in skirmish or to tackle with dreadful relationship. Here we have tp play the safe game to come out from the grim situtation and also could not spoil our relationship with others. whether it is in our business or with our family memebers.

As it is been rightly said it takes a few seconds to break the relation but takes a long way to go to build that broken relations.

One way to come out from the skirmisk is let to make the opposite person to remove his wild anger without opposing in between, otherwise this will only lead to enhance in to more conflict. Be calm and quiet and make him speak as much as he wants. This is the one best way to come out from the situtation.

If he really feels guilty afterwards when he cools down, in that situtation try to explains the in's and out's of that skirmish. Always bow to others and always gives grandship to the person who indulge with you in fight.This is the correct meseaures to resolve the conflict or rather it will go to the extremes.

Here some are the few tips to resolve the Dreadful Situtations :-1. Don't take their hostility personally. Try to keep your emotions out of it.
2. Retaliate in king, with patience. Be Quiet, firm and detached.
3. Don't try to stop the harangue until the person has said everything he wants to say or until he stars repeating things.
4. Try to use positive body language and facial expressions.
5. Don't critize. Focus on isues, not personalities.
6. Use Careful questions to uncover the real problems.
7. Don't expect an irritate person to like you. Be satisfied if he or she will listen to you , or it you can successfully settle things.

K.F. Sahiwala

Author & Editor

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