Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Love and Attachment gives grief and sorrow

K.F. Sahiwala
If you don't want to suffer from fear, anger or sadness, don't get attached to anything or anyone, to any expectation, any item, any particular outcome (result). That does not mean you shouldn't have possessions.
It does not mean you can't have people around you that you love. Nor does it mean you don't have expectations, goals, etc. You do. Your happiness does not have to depend on others & things.Dependent on any of them loose your peace and happiness. You choose to be peaceful and content in yourself only.
So when possessions are damaged or when people leave or die or when expectations are not met, all of which are inevitable, you don't become discontent. You have realized everything in life comes and goes, everything decays, every dynamic process is unpredictable and uncontrollable, and must end. You know this is a reality. Every time you get angry it means you are having an argument with this reality.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Do not blame your luck, but deeds

kfsahiwala
We always complain our luck, if something goes weird we don't criticize ourself but ultimately blames our luck. Luck has nothing to do or rather the word luck is immaterial or rather do not exists.

It is ultimately our deeds (Karma) plays an important role in our life. Whatever we sow we reaps. One cannot expect rose from caccutus. If we do good to others, others will also do good for you.

One cannot expect good from our enemies or rivals, until and unless if we turn that enemy in to our friend. It is been rightly said that "BADLA NA LO BADAL KAR DIKHAO".(Do not take revenge, but do good and change that enemy in to your friend)

To bow ourself to others make humble and sweet going in front of others. Do not make things big from small and find the way out to come out from any tough or hard issues as soon as possible. Don't get adamant but if you are right and could not prove at that moment, let's face that situation in humble way and you could prove later because after some time all gets settled and at that time you could prove yourself that you were not wrong previously.

So ultimately it is in your hands to make yourself as a lucky person or unlucky.

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