Thursday, November 30, 2006

Simple Life - Successful Life

K.F. Sahiwala
One has to lead a simple life. Simple in the sense of living. One has to see its circumstances and status and accordingly live his life. For e.g. not spending extravagant amount on any expenses. Everybody tends to be showy, arrogant to others. They forget their ownself and their status and repent afterwards in terms of debts and wrong decisions.

One of my friends wanted his wedding to be celebrate in a big scale. He strived very hard to save money for his marriage purpose at the costs of his life. He could not compromise as he want to show his prestigiousness to others by throwing a big party at his wedding. People tends to become very formal and thus life becomes very complex.

People live their life for others they always think of others. They feel guilty and ashamed for others. They do not want to do any thing which they feel that it would be wrong to others. Others have come to play in our life so much that we have lost our own identity and influence by others. The tag of others should be removed from our self unless and until it is for good cause and does not give harm to others.

I was very much influenced by the movie AGNEESAKSHI cast Jackie Shroff, Manisha Koirla and Nana Patekar. Where Nana Patekar Objects his wife not to call anyone at her birthday when he is there. He said that there is no use of others . People will come and go but no one comes at our rescue. It is true that people will come for two days in demise and console us and disappeared.

Live your life in your own ways without taking attention of others. It is good saying that everyboby will come in hay days and no one would be their in our sorrow.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

How to make a Life Happy and Comfortable

K.F. Sahiwala
Life seems to be very dull, boring, paradox and routine. Everyone complains of their own lives like life is very hard to survive, not easy going, mundane, routine etc. How to overcome this burden, how to remove this bluez from our life etc.

There is a solution try out some casual issues which could overcome your stress like once in a week do some unusual work which could give you some recreation,and enjoyment. Like go for a long drive, cruise, meet your old friends, help others in their efforts without any monetary benefits, involve in some ceremonies, visit old aged, hospitalised people.

One of my friend who was very bored of his routine job. He wanted to change the job trying to search for another to give him better benefits and to come across with new things. I suggested him about the new job which might be very strange at first, insecurity, new environment, strange collegues, Exploitation, New management etc. I explained about the breakthrough or changes to be made in his present vocation. For e.g. to take up a task of your collegue to accomplish his work, concentrate the most excitement part of your work and feel refresh in your self. Create some another route to escape out from routine work for your job . He satisfied and thanked to me for my niche advice.

Another friend of mine was not taking break in his life.I told and assured him that you should go for a change to rejeneuavate yourself like going to a holiday trip, religious trip, cruise etc. He complained about his financial problems.I gave him a good solutions for saving atleast Amt of Rs 5/- per day for which he could easily can do. Like there would be a saving of Rs365*5 = 1825 for his 2 days holiday trip per year.

This is the way to manage your life to bring freshness, gloomness etc. One has to give a chance to do something new so as to overcome from his habit. One can also change the habit of food. One does not eat only normal and simple food but also try some exciting food to give a breakthrough in ones life.

Atleast go once in a month to a restaurants have a candle light dinner with a some one you loved and give a neccessary time to make yourself aware and to bring changes in yourself.

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Planning Makes a Perfect Man

K.F. Sahiwala

One has to plan his life. There are two types of plan one is Short term and another is Long term.
Short term is used for everyday purposes. Long term plan or mastery plan is the index plan of short term plan.

Without planning we would not be there anywhere. The managers, PRO, Business Executive Officers in corporate sectors makes the perfect plan of their activities and hence there is an effective infrastructure of a company. This infrastructure has been borne by an effective planning. The planning is borne by creating effective ideas in mind. Ideas turns in to thoughts and thoughts becomes results when it becomes real.

Turning thoughts in to results is a very harden process. One has to accomplish its goals, In that many hardships and hurdles strucks and distracts our way towards goal. Planning plays a very important roles in realising our goals. After implementation with a proper plan one has to analyse or investigate the process of planning to filterate the correct paths.

As an example you have decided your activities for tommorrow and you wrote that on a paper.
At the end of day you have to recheck your activities for today. If incompleted that has to be carried forward for tommorrow besides your additional planned activities for tommorrow.

The planning makes you a perfect man. Your time, energy and money will not going to waste in absence of plan. You must be in a position to take up a preplan task for the forthcoming time.
A good secretary of a boss always direct boss for every second of preplanned time. Long term plan is the list to be included in short term plan afterwards with a scheduled time fixed for it like planning for a holiday trip, Wedding event, Savings, shopping etc .

Both the plans should get updated with regular interval period of time to discard the old activities which is already been meat out and with the new entries to be done. Planning really makes a life perfect, efficient and effective.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

A short story of a solitary Girl

K.F. Sahiwala
Solitary Life is a very happy life. To remain alone and aloof for a certain period of time gives utmost advantage to your body and mind. It is perhaps saying, that there should be a confirmity between your body, mind and soul. To give your body rests one needs to give your mind and also soul to get relax.

Todays life ie very chaos, fast, advanced everything should be done at a very fast interval of time. Jobs timings are also getting extended day by day i.e up to twelve hours of duty. Our life is getting detoirated day by day. In such a scenario, Man needs to adjust themselves by striving hard and it thus affects his health and immune system of body.

Todays life has become artificial. Man has become very rational in their approach. They normally freak out with their freinds, pubs, discos or rather with any sort of stuff. Here he dont gets the time to look for his own innerself. To make a conscience of oneself is to get free from this mundane or rather abstract from his present wellbeing.

I can give one such nice illustration of a girl cutting the edges of grass, she was lonely and alone but was very happy from inside. She was doing her job so nicely and that to all alone. In such a big valley of field cutting the bushes I felt that she was the part of this nature. Besides her all flora and fauna was also admiring and with the gloom and glory of that small little cute girl.
Her peers was far away from her and they were all together.

With Curiosity Iasked that Girl of her Loneliness. She said I do not like friends that does not mean I hate them. I like to be with my own self. She said I rejenevuate myself and I really feel utter happiness and admiration. when I am alone I conversed with nature, birds and animals.
I was amazed and I learned from her that to maintain stability in your life one has to remain oneself by remaining quite and abstrain from others.

But in todays life everyone wants to show off their generosity by indulging in to parties, rallies, politics, seminars etc and etc. SoI request you all people to throw away this artificial life and maintain the life of a solitary girl for a certain period of time.

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

A Real life Saga of an Entrepreneur

K.F. Sahiwala
It is strongly believe that more profit lies in business. Job oriented peopole always repent themselves for not doing business. Truly, there are many drawbacks for one to start business.They are as follows :-

1) One needs huge capital investment for godown, office space, and needs to maintain huge stock.

2) Too many legal oblighation to comply like agreement, Partnership Deed, Registration with different Tax authorities and local bodies formalities.

3) You may get deceive in the hands of your employees. You would be gifted one day with a nice crafted resignation from him notwithstanding giving handsome salary, incentives, priviliges and sponsorship for the vocation.

4) You may have to strive for the global competition. One has to consider when you quote internationally. Your price should be competitive to the rest of the world not only for your home country.

5) Your contract also gets failed globally due to the changes in political sceneraio, for eg In the middle east countries the business gets stuck up for the entire month of Ramadhan every year. Such changes have to be managed with positive attitude.

6) Even there is a delayed payment you should be in a position to manage your business.
Like how to pay salary to your staff, vendors even if your receipts gets linger. You cannot reject to your big customer at the time of signing contract only for the factor of timely payment.One has to tolerate in this difficult situation.

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Indian Law - Indiference to man

K.F. Sahiwala

Our laws always protects the rights and privilige of an Indian Women. Everywhere and everynow it bows , respect, dignify the portrait of Indian women. Women are always considered as Pure, Sakshat Laxmi, Devi and full of characterise human value.

There is always respect for women with regard to her greivances, family problems, social, cultural and economical factors. In Income Tax also there is an exemption of income for them. In social issues women are given better preference then man.

Man are always considered low and inferior as compared to women. Though I belive that ancient women were deprived with basic living concepts of education, occupation, dress code, underhand, dowry, absence of laws.

Drastically now it has changed very much. This society made new laws for women to have equal participation with men. It is a nice step to avoid the exploitation against them in front of men. This is still been in vogue in villages that they are still underhand and considered as under dog.

Man on other hand in urban have become victim in the hands of women. Today Modern women takes undue advantage of their laws against their husbands. At rececently the law has passed for domestics issue in fovour of women describing her rights and claims against their husbands at the time of abuse, quarrel, seperation etc.

She is protected by the law she needs to be nutured, nourished, shelthered, claims her property with her husband. Men are now considered as bluffer, dishonest, flatterer when women raises her voice in front of law. If a women certifies her husband as No Man ie lack of sexual pleasure with her, she can gets divorce easily and that to with the compensation from him.

Is this our law, Women are considered true and pure but all the women are not Saraswati.
If a man is having an extra affair with a married women, would you called that married women as saraswati. Rather we should change our perception that all man are not decieve and all women are not loyal.

Before giving a verdict , one has to study its pros and cons of a case rather deciding on gender issue and giving favour to a women.

Monday, November 06, 2006

Life - Full of Mundane

K.F. Sahiwala


One’s life is dependant on others.One cannot live his life in his own ways. He has to follow the rules and fundamentals of the society. He has to or rather force to observe its ethics and principles and code of conduct. He is ever bound with its formality.

Like, someone is not in mood to celebrate any festival for the crisis or bad events , He has to observe for its culture and values.People are so zero in on that there is no escape route out of it.

Why I have to observe the tradition ? why I am forced to do a particular event, when I am not in mood? Why I have to celebrate any festival say (Diwali), when I am incurring heavy losses in business?. Is this a tradition or mundane helps me in my personal matters. News always comes for politicians, about their deaths, medical etc etc Why not for our common people.

One has that right or rather one should change their belief that festival celebration only takes place when a person is in mood to do so. If I incur huge gains I will declare bonus to my staff and celebrate Diwali.

So, Please freak out from wordly mandane to live your life as per your principles.