Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Attachment leads you to trouble

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, Today’s topic is of about attachment. Attachment leads you to the wrong path and atlast will give you only grief and sorrow. Attachment towards materialistic possession will never solace you and your demand for new will get intensify and will put you in to trouble.

We undergo attachment with any one for getting returs from it. A father always has an attachment towards his siblings as he thinks that they are my own blood and never deceives me in my life and when it turns out to be opposite of his expectation it will lead to burn out and break off the relationship with his children.

I met an old man who was very happy with his family, He has a strong confidence towards his children and finally he got deceived by his own sons and his life got ruined and became turbulent. We have to be strong enough to take upon the returns as a result of an attachment whether the results may come positive or negative.

Resistant play a very important role in maintaining the relationship. A father cannot expect the same returns from all of his sons. Some sons may fulfil his needs and expectation of their fathers and some may not. We should not make hue and cry for the negative results but always see on the other side like,

1 ) my life does not get affected with anyone, I have my own savings and income which I rely upon. A man could not spend his entire earning for his children but he should be aware of keeping some portion out of it as saving for his old age.It is well go on saying that no one come up in your rescue except you have your own money.

2 ) Have expectation from God,. God is only the entity which gives you relief from your pains and will never deceive you in your bad times but always cares for you.

I can give an example of a man who was all alone in this world but at the times when he got old and he was finally looked upon by God through his neighbour who had cared him so much that he said finally that even my own son could not have cared me that much.

We have heard from many people that at their difficult time their children had turned them away and it was finally those (strangers or friends) who rescued them.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Gain Traffic to your Websites- By Sam Barns

K.F. Sahiwala
Web site traffic is the number one imperative of 99 % of the marketers on the Internet. How does one go about gaining more web site traffic? That is putting the cart before the horse. The first thing a person needs to do is measure current web site traffic before embarking on gaining more traffic. The second step is to use some or all of the methods listed below to gain more web site traffic and the third step is to measure current hits once again in order to calculate the success of the traffic-building campaign.

If someone else is hosting your site, most likely they'll have a traffic analysis package that you can access through the control panel. Packages such as Webalizer or AW Stats are common. Even if one of these web site traffic analysis applications is not offered by your host, most likely you'll still have access to the log files and can download these to a PC and use an application such as Funny Web Analyzer to give out the necessary stats.
If these web site traffic analysis packages are not available or understandable, you may wish to turn to an outside vendor who will give you a little Java code to put on the pages in order to give the necessary stats.

Once you have an idea of how many visitors per day you're receiving and where they're coming from it is time to start using some methods to gain web site traffic.
The best method with the highest return on investment of gaining web site traffic is to perform search engine optimization (SEO) on a web site. Traffic from the natural search engines such as Google is free and for some online businesses, this accounts for 80 % of their sales.
Since SEO is a slow, long-term plan for gaining web site traffic, typically taking months for the rankings to kick in, many web site owners choose to use a pay-per-click campaign to gain traffic in the short term.

Pay-per-click programs such as Google Ad Words and Yahoo / Overture Site Match are a way to see immediate results by placing a web site in the Sponsored Listings section of the SE's search results page. Traffic from these campaigns can also help you judge the viability of the keywords you've chosen for the SEO campaign. When doing pay-per-click (PPC) you basically bid on a keyword or key-phrase. The more you pay, the higher you appear in the Sponsored Listings and the more traffic the web site will receive. The downside of pay-per-click though is that you keep paying and paying and paying for the traffic. Soon youll spend way more on PPC than on the optimization services.
Search engine optimization is not an end all and be all for everyone when it comes to generating more web site traffic. Many different and varied online marketing practices should be employed. When employing these other practices, though, don't neglect SEO because you can be sure your competition isn't neglecting it.


Some of the ways by which Traffic can be gained are:

1. Search Engine and Directory Submissions. If you need alot of hits, then submitting to search engines and web directories will do the trick.
2. Submit your site in chat rooms. This is a guaranteed hit. Youre guaranteed to at least get 50% of the people in the chat to visit your site. Imagine you submitting to over eighty people, and they all visit. That is a lot of hits!
3. Submit your site to larger sites. This is the second best way of doing things. For one a lot of people look at the links section, and if your link is there, there is a good chance of that person going to it. I would submit your link to any site you feel that would give you good hits.
4. Submit to Top Site Lists. This isn't the best way of doing things, but it helps somewhat. Most people won't visit your site if it is a low rank, which isn't that good. So try to take a top site list that lets the people vote. This way, even if your hits aren't that good, you can possibly achieve a high rank. Even if your site is a low rank, at least it is there.

About the Author:
Sam Barns owns Links-Exchange.net the internet best link-exchange system. For more information on search engine optimization and other services you can email him at sam@links-exchange.net

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Monday, December 17, 2007

Role Male model

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi folks, there is a huge demand not only for females model but also male model. There
are heavy shows conducted for males and every year there is a Mr India or Mr world.

In this competory world there is a huge demand for male role model not in the terms of their deeds and vigour but also in their attire, looks, personality and outer form.In ancient times the people ideals in terms of males were Subhash Chandra Bose, Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru, Lala Lajpatrai etc, Nowadays role models of todays people are Hritik Roshan, Salman Khanm etc.

Todays man have become very cautious in terms of thier looks and attire.Recently an add
has come for man's glory and fairness cream i.e "Mardon Wali Cream" to look shiny and fair. Sharukh Khan appeared in a bath Tub of Lux Advertisement, many anti-persperient spray with only male role models are seen with half nude bare chest and sometimes an erotics scenes also with females.

There is a lure and demand for good looking guys with body build and wide chest. So many health spa and beauty saloons have been opened to lure males to make excite and gorgeous in front of females. Males join the gym to make their body mould and look more handsome and lovely going with thier females counters.

I can narrate my example where I had been boarded in a hotel and to the next door there was a man . I happened to suddenly entered in his room by mistake and was astonished to see his stuff with so many beauty aids and attires which he was very found. i saw there is a one man show spray, gel cream for his hairs, Danddruff shampoos with conditioner, toiletery soaps and tissues, creams, shaving creams, After shave lotions, Fairness cream, Dyes and colors for hairs. and bla blka.

Indeed really no one can say that only womens are happen to look gorgious and good looking. Today even a man want to make his look attractive, slim , trim and his ideals are always one of some our boolywood heros like JOHN ABRAHAM or SHAHID KAPOOR.

Wednesday, December 05, 2007

Bad Transportation

K.F. Sahiwala






Hi Folks, Today's life has become very hectic day by day and thanks to our transportation of our country, which add only dismay to our life. A very rare BEST Buses found to propogate the large population of this contry. Day by Day eveyone sees the huge stempede in Trains, Buses, Serpentine queues for Auto Rikshas and Taxis.

Todays transportaion becomes very weak to inculcate the huge population of this country. People only rely with only one resource of Buses and Trians which thus leads to chaos and terrible reprimand and battling with each other. Its an horrible experience to wait for 30 to 40 minutes for buses. Trains are also not enough for this population esp Virar trains which after every 15 minutes.

People at the surburbs falls a very bad at the hands of Local Trains and thus their transit from office to home causes a great dismay ,turmoil and hardships. I love to live in suburbs of its great serenity and beauty but I get stop because of this great hardship while in transist between to and fro. I think that private companies should open their doors for transportation and provide relief to a common man.

There should be a substitute for these subtle local trains and BEST Buses. Private Companies should allow to ply thier own vehicles besides these modes of transportation. Everyone will get relief and feel energetic and happy. Half of our energy goes only in travelling and that to a very gruesome travelling where a man does not get a sit to seat or rather put in this that he does not get space to even stand also. There is no value for ones life. A man can esaily gets dropped standing at the doorstep. Even Passenger Trains are also highly gets flooded and not to say how these passengers travel by standing for so many hours.

This is a very high time to come out with alternative ways to combat the gruesome situation of our infrastructure of transportation. Otherwise a day will come that these only one transportation could not cope up with the rising population of this country and ultimately it will collapse.

Friday, November 23, 2007

Health Spa

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, Health is an important topic which cannot be forgotten. Heath is wealth. If you are healthy than you are capable to accumulate wealth. An Apple a day keeps a doctor away.Healthy body and mind keeps away from dreadful diseases. Precaution is always better than cure. There are many disease which happens only when we live a unheathy life.

Unheathy in the sense that we are least bother of our food. We normally go with our taste buds and usually consume fast food which is very unhealthy to our health. Fast Food normally consists of more calories, fats and carbohydrates and it gets very difficult to our body to burn those extra calories and fats and thus leads to give rise to various types of diseases like diabities, Heart attacks etc.

We should increase the intake of fibres, vegetables, fruits, salads, green leafy vegetables to increase our metabolism activity in our body and besides consume lot of water like 8 to 10 glass atleast in a day. WorkOuts, Brisk walking, Aasans helps us in reducing the weight of our body.

Recently I joined the Gym not of to build my body and biceps like an atheist but to maintain and keep my body light and flexible and touch wood I am really feeling easy going and felt very much enthusiastic all the whole day. Besides I had changed my food habits like I became a totally vegetarian from non vegetarian.

I had learned from my health tutor that slowly slowly you should change your habits. If you suddenly stop from anything whether it is related to food, lifestyles, business than you have to compensate a lot and it is very difficult to bring the change. First, I was used to dring 2 to 3 big cups of strong milk tea with 3 spoons of sugar daily in morning. After with the direction from my tutor I had reduced the intake of tea day by day and today I had come down with only 1 cup of tea with only one spoon of sugar.

Normally your diet plans should always starts with a cup of orange juice or papaya juice in the morning afterwards with two brown breads, a cup of tea and other snacks like Idli, Dosa, Pavwa etc

9.00 am A glass of Plain milk,
11.00 am light snacks like ground nuts, grams, popcorns
1.15 pm 2 chapaatys, vegetables, soups, salads and rice
3.45 pm a cup of herbal or green tea and light maria biscuits or light farsan
5.00 pm snacks like vegetable sandwich, fruits juice, popcorns ets
8.30 pm 2 chowpattys, soups, vegeatbles boiled, curd and rice
10.00 pm a cumcumber or carrot or carrot juices.
and besides 8 to 10 glass of water.

Go to your gym regularly do brisk walking avoids using lifts instead use stair case, Avoid drinking synthetics Sharbats, Colas , Candies, pastries, fast foods, non- veg, Maintain your body by intaking proper nutrients and your mind will also starts developing by generating positive ideas, thoughts, creative thinking and proper judgement.

It is well go on saying like where there is a proper food to intake and so there is always a positve and healthy mind and body.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

A Dream Of Mine

K.F. Sahiwala
I dream of... A life without pain...
I dream of... Love that I can't explain...
I dream of... Eyes not plagued by tears...

I dream of... A soul without fears...
I dream of... A pure, unbroken heart...
I dream of... A hope of never growing apart...

I dream of... The smile on your face...
I dream of... A better place...
I dream of... The things I could never do...

I dream of... A dream

Friday, November 16, 2007

Punjabi Mania

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, This is related to the culture and standard of living of our various caste and creed in our country. We get influenced by their traits, customs and cultures and we adopt their life styles in our life. We found many people who does not belong to South, are very fond of south Indian food and dishes.

People of india are found of Chinese Dishes, Fast Food Like Pizzas, Hand burgers, Continental Dishes. People does not go in terms of food but they get influenced by their outfits and costumes. In this subject we find we are basically got so much trapped with Punjabi Triats, food, Outfits and with their trends.

Punjabi stanzas and many other proverbs and saying are very much found in our bollywood cinemas. Our bollywood stars always churn and sing many of the songs which almost contains Punjabi rythmes and lyrics like BALE BALE, CHAK DE. As when movie CHAK DE got released everybody humes here and there in sports, tounament and many other activities CHAK DE to boost the morale and to intensify their enthusism towards their work, game or tournament.

CHAK DE is normally an expression given to welcome the players to win and boost their morale. In Gujrati Garbah people normally hum like "ARE HALO" to win the enthusiam and to create amicable environment. It changes the mood of the players and people get arose and gets towards more to their game. In English It is "COME ON".

Punjabi food and outfits and even ther language is famous against all other religion food, outfits and language. In terms of food people are very much adorable with Punjabi dishes and foods . People are very much connessiur to Punjabi foods and thier taste buds gets really satified with Punjabi foods like CHOLE CHANA, PANEER MASALA, ALU MUTTER, DAL FRY, DAL TADKA and etc.

Salwar Kuta becomes the best dresses for ladies and they feel very much comfortable and looks gorgeous in this outfits. So friends when you come across with anyone just see in them that some how or the other they gets influenced with the punjabi culture and triats.

Thursday, November 01, 2007

Spiritual Education

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, This is regarding the lack of knowledge of spiritual education in ourself. In Today's world where there is impact power of Science and Technology in our life,making our life comfortable and ease on one side with an opposite effect of growing competition and stressful life on the other side.

Today man cannot cope up with these changes thus leading himself to stress and depression. To combat with depression one needs spiritual education. Spiritual education brings peace, love, happiness, purity inside and these qualities teach the individual to live with his fellow beings with harmony and compassion in syncronizing with the development of science, communication and technology. Spiritual awakening teaches us to use the gifts of science for the betterment and not for the destruction of mankind.

People are not happy in the present scenerio of the development of science and technology. The materialistic world cannot give the happiness to the man. The ignition of happiness has to create from inside of our being. Inspite of this technology, people still suffer from one sort or another. They are not happy and satisfy with their present living.

Day by Day the new versions of mobile sets, accessiories, computers, multimedia are getting invented making people to lure and indulging them to buy thus making people greedy, arrogant, selfish, pride and these hapiness last only for short interval period of time. It is been rightly said man can buy costliest to costliest bed to sleep but he cannot buy sleep. Sleep is natural and it comes from inside when you are contend and satisfy.

Spiritual education teaches you to live happily in your present stage and deriving happiness with your existing valuables and accessiories without the cry for want of more. It gives you sound sleep and sweet dream in night, it teaches you to combat the stress and depression and how to face the difficult situation with contentment and ease, It removes from you impurities like anger, greediness, arrogantness, attachments, and all ill habits like smoking, drinking, gambling etc.

So as to lead a comfortable and enjoyable life in tune with the development of science and technology one has to observe spirituality and value education through RAJYOGA meditation and studying the spiritual course of 7 days which is totally free of cost from BRAMMAKUMARIS Organisation.

One can visit to the site of this organisation at http://www.brahmakumaris.com/

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Ram Teri Ganga Maili.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, I have read an interested article in Gujrati Newspaper i.e. GUJRAT EXPRESS the article on the river of Ganga. Last week also there was a beautiful scene of the people taking a Holy bath in the river of Ganga in the recently realesed movie BHOOL BHOOLAIYA and LAGA CHUNARIYA PE DAAG. We come across with all such scenes of Ganga River, where people deep in to the water and get salvation.

They do POOJA and worship of the river and believe it as a Holy Water where one has to deep himself in to Ganga to make oneself pure and celibacy. People gives lot of respect to this river and there is a huge crowd at the time of festival. The situation of this river is really very pathetic inspite of the people respect and devotion to this river.

Firstly, people come there to pour the ashes of thier deceased and makes the water impure and dirty. Sometimes with addition to the ashes, the left over unburn bones and skeleton of the body gets mixed up with the ashes and does not get dissolved in water and makes the water to stink and dusty.

In the paper, the photograph of the left over of unburned bones and skeleton's was shown and thus makes the water dirty and smelly. In addition to that people deep to take bath and thus ganga water becomes MAILY (Dirty). Moreover, Thanks to our industrial development growth which throw their wastages and damages to this water making the river more polluted and dirty.

The real picture of Ganga is not pure and beautiful but becomes totally dirty and still it flows from the Homalayas and gets mixed up in to the sea without complaining and restricting to flow. It carries away the dust, impurity of Industries, Sin and sorrow of Human beings. It is ready to absorb all the dirtness of this world as to think in future that people will become pure and sinless. On the contrary, The wrong doings, sin, sorrow, humility, enemity, hatred are rising giving more burden to this river.

Our Late Prime Minister Rajiv Gandhi has taken a plan to clean the water of GANGA and hopefully the project was about to go and in beetween he died by leaving our ganga water like this. It is been rightly said that instead of getting drowned to the river as to make our body clean, one should be ever ready to clean his soul and mind first and then body.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Gandhi Jayanti

K.F. Sahiwala

Today is a 2 nd October, i.e The Birthday of our Freedaom Fighter Mahatma Gandhiji. It is a pride for our country to have such a great freedom fighther. I salute him for his great work and I always got inspired by him about his struggle in getting back the freedom of our country from British through Non- Violence.

I missed the oppurtunity to go to MANI BHAVAN at Girgaun (Chowpatty) to his residence to show the greatness and love towards him for his prestigious movement in bringing back to our country. I really admire him for his prestige thoughts and non- violence. Today, Mrs Sonia Gandhi really admire and preaches Gandhian thoughts and non - violence. She said at the meeting in United Nations "It is not the relevance of Mahatma Gandhi that is in question today... it is whether we have the courage to emulate his preachings and what he lived and died for," she said in an address to the United Nations General Assembly. She was heard in rapt attention by leaders from different nations and her son Rahul Gandhi, External Affairs Minister Pranab Mukherjee and his deputy Anand Sharma."

She said the world is facing violence of various kinds and there was a collective failure of the international community in tackling terrorism and checking nuclear proliferation.Plz check at the site http://specials.rediff.com/news/2007/oct/02slide1.htm

Its really true there are nuclear wepeons to destroy the terrosim . To tackle the terrossim by non-violence is the sign of courage and bravery.she said, was his belief that strength comes from righteousness, not force, power comes from truth, not might, victory comes from moral courage, not imposed submission.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Cricket Mania

K.F. Sahiwala


This is to share the joyous event of winning the 20-20 World Cricket Cup in favour of our country. Our Great New Captain Mr Mahendra Singh Dhooni had embarked the great achievement in his life history in his first captainship for an Indian Team. Congrats to Mr Mahinder Singh Dhoni and to his family Members. The full Jharkhand in Ranchi are in the mood of celebration of India 20-20 World cup under the leadership of Mr Dhoni.
This match was snowballed as it was between India and Pakistan and Morever it takes a turning point as we made 157 runs and the Pakistan batsman was out at zero run. The bluez of the people wiped away as they saw continuously falling the wickets of Pakistan. Again the grip got increased with anxiety and curiousity when the fast pacer Mr SREESANTH gave too many runs in his overs. But thanks to Mr Afridi who got out at zero run.
Lastly, it was an interesting match as no one could predict that who will won and lastly the vaccum of curiousity and tension got rise as Pakistan team has only to score 6 runs out of 4 balls. But at the last moment Irfan Pathan took the wicket and finally the victory came in India's hand. There was a giltz and glamour all around and why not India had won the World cup after 24 years. It was in the year of 1983 when India won the world cup in the captainship of Mr Kapil Dev.


There was a huge embarkment at the house of R.P.Singh at RAIBAIRELI as R.P. Singh took the 2 wickets of Pakistan and the full trust was all upon the Pacers of Indian team. There was no electricity in RAIBARELI but everybody was worried that there are still hope and chances to win for an Indian team and that full faith was upon R.P. SINGH.
Anyways, it is immaterial to tell what got happened and how they win, but atlast we got relief that India had come up at the very first 20-20 World cup. I really got happy to see my pride and prestige of my country, and finally I was sad also at the same time that what's the use to get happy and whatever the rewards i.e Rs 1 CRORE to Mr Mahender Singh DHONI and 20 Lakh Dollars to Indian Team will going to go in their pockets.
The poverty problem of India will not get solved until and unless if these players will play not for the commercial purpose but rather some social cause. The monetary benefits will definately will going to pass in our economy and there will be Good Nutrients, hygiene, Housing, Education, Empolyment will get solved. The rich people day by day are becoming rich, So there is a need for an hour to solve the key problems of our country and will finally say that India will always should be in front not only sports but in also all other areas.

Monday, September 17, 2007

Satyamev Jayate.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, This is really absurd when I come accross with any person who always speaks lie. Liars always gives you trouble in your life they are never to be trusted and always mislead you. I really hate with the liars and I always incorporate in my life that whatever the situation arise I will always speaks truth.

Once a teacher shows the picture which shows that there are two paths, one path is covered with red carpets and flowers and other path is covered with thorns, leaves, dust and stones. Then the teacher asked a questions to her studends that which path you will choose, all of them chosen the path which was covered with flowers.

So as in todays life also by speaking lies one gets escaped temporaily and in future they have to repent thier wrong doings as well as false statement given to unhide their doings. Truth will harm you temporaily and it will give you better results afterwards as what the two paths shown by the teacher.Intially at the beggining the flowers were seen and later on when you move futher the flowers will soon disappear and will be replaced by thorns and stones and vice versa.

There are many types of lies. One is lie to defend himself from a difficult situation, Another lie is to brag and boast, third type is to give temporary happiness to others like eg a husband always flatter his wife but his affair also goes on with his secretary or girl friend, fourth lie is that there is no any formal reason but it is there because of habit and it is found specially in childrens. All forms of lies are harmful and the person is not trusted at all and his character will get lost. Once the character is lost it cannot be rebuild fast and lie is one of the greatest evil among all other evils.

One more thing to observe that a when a person speaks lie he is always found to take a vow or promise of the dieties or other beloved person to prove his genuity. So, Please be aware of this evil it will disturb your life as well as of others. One good example in a movie where Munnabhai depicts his wrong doings to the soul of Mahatma Gandhiji and the soul says that you should have a strength to speak truth and confess your guilty. It is very easy to speak lie but one has the strength to overcome the situation not by speaking lie but to face the situation with calmness, peacefulness and truthfulness.