Sunday, April 29, 2007

Good Speaker is the one who Preaches to give Speech

K.F. Sahiwala


Hi Folks, I could not wait to tell or rather very eager to inform you that all which happens to be a seminar, conference, Trade fairs, Get Together, Speech, Summons are held to show or to teach a good path to one 's life. The preacher who address to their followers on any issues related to one's life, points out the defects and rectify or gives the solution in general to thier followers on any subjects which relates to them.

Whether these leaders, preachers really implements the morality in their own life or rather they are there only to come up with their shows and to narrate their noble and divine ideas to the public in general. The ideas and values becomes noble not only to share and communicate with others but to make those ideas to incorporate in our own daily life.

I have come across with many leaders and organisers who are unscrupulous and they are there only for the role to give speeches and arrange seminars. If one to give any sppeeches on morality or spirituality, they have to check themselves first whether those moralities are presnt in them. It is very easy to give advice to others but it is very difficult to incorporate those advice in ones life.

I attended a seminar on health and holistic approach, I got so stuck and amazed with the speaker for their noble and divine speeches. I personally got so emotional to thanks them for giving those noble ideas on the health & holistic approach. Then, there create a doubt in my mind to know whether these ideas and thoughts given by them, gets really implemented by them in their own life or rather they are there only for the speeches and advice.

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Silent is Bliss

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks. Todays world is very dramatic and artificial. there is no true and perfect relationship. There always lie unscrupulous and disorted tie ups. People today are very much immune to routines and forcibly living their life not for the sake of thier own but for others.

Happiness and bliss has gone from this world. People tends to remain happy from outside but in their uncouncious mind sorrow and sins settles. Selfishness, greatness, arrogantness always settles in our mind and therefore the result comes that peace has completely wiped out from our life.

Silent is the bliss. Silent or rather peace makes the mind relaxes and gains the intellectual. I can narrate an example of one of my friend who always remain happy and cheerful in whatever the circumstances he meets me. I asked the reason for this about his youthfulness and gentleness. He told me I take eveything to a stride and doesnt get involved in an unimportant issues. I free my mind from all the worries which comes as an obstacles. Obstacles prevents your mind to develop and futher degenrates in making new ideas. His business got developed so much day by day now he is earning crores of rupees.

He always fufils the demands of others., Like he always give raise to his employees as per their desires. If he opposed and objects his opponents he would make his mind tense and confuse.In such senerio his mind gets rotates or retaliates with his past issues rather developing new thoughts and ideas.

Secondly, he always wants to detach himself from others. He always like to remain reserve and lonely. He likes loneliness very much as he gains bliss from loneliness, as loneliness is always be there when there is a silent. He defines loneliness as meditation for developing ourself and to remain content with others. It is rather to put in different way that silent is minds yoga where you come in touch or contact with God.

Today no one gets the time to remain with oneself completely in isolation. Eveybody has to come in contact with one and another. Our minds works for every hour except at sleep. So one has to devote atleast 5 to 10 minutes away from this mundane to rejenuavate our inner self so as to gain bliss. The good example is take 10 minutes nap in the afternoon or rather do your prayers or take a lone brisk walk or sit in isolation to make you free from mundane and keep you fresh and lively.

Friday, April 20, 2007

Effective Time Management.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks ! Time plays a very important role in ones life. Once time has gone you will be looser. You cannot recall your past time back. A perfect man does all his work at an accurate time. He is very efficient and properly handles and tackles his task at correct time.

Time management does become a hour of subject matter. I have seen many person who always complain about time. They in fact don't have any time for any issues. They always crawl upon for any work and could not complete at an exact time. They even dont have a time for their food. It is all sheer nonsense and could not be said to be a perfect and manageble man. A man does manage himself for his no complain of time. He does all his work at a proper time and thus ready for the new work to be carried upon.

I have seen many of my friends who doesn"t have a time and always complain that time is flying away like anything and could not be able to accomplish their task. There should be a solution for that, I understand that thier vocation needs atleast 10 hours of work and not to say the time goes for travelling to and fro from office & residence. Its really a very high time to see and allocate and to give time to all the issues without only concentrating only at one partyicular issues.

The rules to be followed for an effective time planning are :-

1 ) Change of Habits and life Styles, stay away for time being to your daily routines and set
some time for the new issues.
2 ) Delegating those areas that are less important.
3 ) Avoid personal visits and clear your doubts and work on the telephone itself.
4 ) Set your goals and agendas for your forth coming days as to avoid wastage of timings .
5 ) In Short Delegation, Planning setting priorities, staying away from your trivial work and
setting agendas are useful skills that can help anyone.

Monday, March 26, 2007

The More you Want , The More Difficulty you face

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, I"ll Discuss today about how to remain static, spiritual in your life. Spiritual people are always satisfy and happy from inside. They are melodious and spend a luxurious life. I have seen many poor people always happy. They are self contented with their basic necessities and they never cry for more. More really curse you and makes ones life miserable. Why more, if you are happy from inside with your present situation you need not be so eager to run for more or some or other.

This some or other will be an added advantage or benefit for you if you can adjust or rather satisfy or rather more happy with your present scenerio. One has not to be arrogant and not to be boast of your status. One of my friends always tends to say whenever someone asks him about his business and standard of living. He gutters and remarks with an pleasent note that by the grace of GOD I am very happy and thankful to GOD for giving me such a nice and wonderful life.

He always prays to GOD not for his achievement and advancement but thanking him for his present life and wants to ever remain in this status and begging him for the sinful deeds which he mistakenly did from his unknown senses. A beggar who was so hungry not even getting food and water for so many days and let it to be put aside for not having his clothes to wear. In this shabby condition he atleast thanks to GOD for giving this air to breathe.

We have to learn this lesson that if one become spiritual and follow the good deeds with positive thinking and with attachment to GOD one gets ample of energy to remain patience, righteousness, gentleness, positivness, straightness in building the relationship with others. A yogi is not at all affected with the sceneraio going around it. His mind and soul are in the tune melodious tune with the almighty.

So need to practice a real meditation is first to have your own insight to check out your loopholes and slowly slowly with dfue prayers and self meditation can burn those negativoity. Once when negativity will disappear then there comes with a slow and slight tune of happiness and joy in the form of your lifestyle. You would feel happy with small issues and with your present surroundings. Forget about delicious foods and lifestyles. You would even feel with a great taste Simple DAL BHAT chappati and rice.

So why there is so hoopla with more and more or happen to be grow more in your life . Wanna achieve your success and make yourself happy with the present situation and see even a slight gain you get will create you more happy and delightful from inside.

Saturday, March 17, 2007

Positve VS Negative

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks ! Better the person is better his managment. Management is to deal with oneself tasks and his ambience. The success only comes to your way when you deal with the positve attitude to others. In your life one has to take care first for others. I found many people who really takes cares for others. They take their ownself to a stride for others.

Positive thinking makes a person perfect. Perfect in all ways in terms of his health, emotions, attitudes and feelings towards others. A good example is a short stanzas where by a teachers places a white sheet of paper on a black board and splitting a black ink dot on it and turning the attention of the students towards the black board. He asks one of a student to notice on the board and asks what did he find. He pointed to a black dot on a paper. The teacher informed him why he could not see the full white paper and only that tiny black spot.

Today we find here and there that people gets indulged in wrong thinking and his attire and attitude also gets changed in to negative. There are conflicts and disputes in the name of religion. All are wanted to be in a top among others. This creates a lot of negativity among us. Our own brothers fights themselves and become a blood thirst for each other in the name for deceased property. Why there is so hue and cry in general. No one wants to come down or put his low attire and esteem.

I can narrate to you with one incident which stopped me in wrong doing by keeping the mind balance and positive attitude. Where not by mistake a person got knocked by my motor cycle. That person indulged me in to dispute but witthout uttering a word I accepted and said sorry to that guy who then remained cooled and said that he knew that it was not my mistake but he was in tense with the other issue and for that he was deppresed.

One always should know another mind. We should always take it easy for wrong doings of others. Rather taking revenge we should feel pity on him and estimate that he might be suffering from a lot of trouble for that he is passing some of the deppression to us in the form of wrong doing.

You know the story of a women and her six month old child where her husband had petted a mangooese to take care of her child. His wife had a wrong and negative emotions towards that mangooese. They lived in a deep forests where there were a lots of snakes.

One day that lady killed that mangooese thinking that he had killed his child when she saw the red blood of cobra on his body. Atlast she came to know that he has not killed his child but a black cobra which had come to kill his child.

Negative thinking and thoughts spoils ones relation and there is a huge hue and cry in the family. It is like go on saying a one dirty fish makes the whole well dirty.

Saturday, March 03, 2007

Live like a life of king size.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks ! Its very suprising to know that as a customer in the market you get host of facilities. You are in a position to choose from a wide range of products. For very money you spends it counts to your sellers. Depending upon the availability of the products or services that you demand.

I could not understand how the sellers survives, mean to say that had happened to me before a year back. I had gone to seee a movie in single silver screen which costs me around 60 bugs per ticket whereas in multiplexes it costs you around more than 100 bugs. I think even one can enjoy in the same way as the do enjoy in multiplexes.

One can shop in a big malls and even with the hawkers. You can get a wide range of stuff ranging from leather belt up to an electronics items from these hawkers with a slight lesser in quality as compared to big shops and malls. In todays world one can enjoy even with 10 bugs as compared to 1000/-bugs but slight in a change of quality.

Thanks to a varied credit cards floating in the market for which you can shop as many stuff for a credit period of more days. I personally shop with my credit card for which I save a meagre amount everyday to finish with that limited period of time. I spend and enjoy my every movies in multiplexes rather than single theatres which was cheaper earlier to me .Now it costs me around Rs 5 to 7 everyday for 25 days of the credit period of my credit card.

Customers today can bargain for the better products and quality at affordable prices. Not to say of manufacturers today even traders and retailers offer thier customers reward points for their purchases for which they can redeem against their offer gifts in addition to the credit period from thier credit cards. I even purchase my grocieries and provisional items not from shops but from big outlets having all this facilities as described above.

Low prices, Cheaper products, more discounts, free samples, credit period, EMIS instalments, Travellers cheques, reward points, ets makes a person to become expert in buying their products and services.

So let not to save but make to try to spend more so as to take more advantages from the market in every possible ways. Todays bank also spread their arms to give you cash through ATM for all 24 hrs.

Todays agenda of the market is to spend, spend and spend and live like a life of a kingsize.

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Hard Peoples are real life heros.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi folks ! Hard people always gets due respect in the society. They always like and love their work. They are work alcholic. They used to manage their work so efficiently and effectively not to describe in words. They always prosper and gets achievement in thier goals.

They want to keep themselves always in their work. They think, write, talk, listen and with every moments of their body wants to get involved in their work, In fact they are very hard working and deligent in their approach.

I wanted to share my experience with many guys who were really mind blowing in thier work. I really got enthusiasted and learned from them how to become smart, talented and easy going to your work. These two of my friends are doing not white collor jobs but as a salesman. This friend named RAJU who is doing the duty of 13 hrs in his vocation as a salesman in a medical shop.

Though I am from different field but I got impressed from his personality and the way of doing the work. This chap is working like a machine and that to non stop. He doent get the time even for his food. He narrates to me that he really gets exhausted and tired when he reaches home late night.The medical shop where his job is also located in a posh area and they have a huge clientele lists. He himself does a business of nearly 50,000/- to 75,000/- per day. He is really a mind blowing guy and he definately became one of my good friends.

I doesnt like people simply wasting time in unimportant issues. I hate lazy and dump people. I really doesn't like teenagers going to colleges in the name of studies but busy getting involved in some other unrelated subjects.

So, Keep your mind always busy in your work which keeps you energetic and successful. Epedemics and diseases always gets caught to those people who are lazy and lethargic. They have a very slow sysyem of digestion then to hard working people.

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Procastination Leads to Failure

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks ! Procastination creates hampers in ones life. One cannot achieve success and attaining the goals of life. If one pushes its work for a longer time, he would not come out of it. The work becomes subtle afterwards. one can gets sublime if the task is finished within no seconds of time.

I had observed that man gets lazy and hestitate for a certain type of work. Why ? the reason is that , might that work is least interested to him or he is coerce to do that work. If one prolonges his work he will lose interest in that and he will never finishes his work.

I had seen in many big organisation, the management and infrastructure of that company is so build that they can achieve even a very substantial tasks through effective planning and proper management. If you manage your task even the boring work also will create an interest and you will be directed to finish it soon. If you could not cope up with your projest and eliminating by procastinating you will never accomplish it. Break thats tasks in to small modules and take those modules one by one so as to finish up that tasks fully.

Achievement and success will only comes in a way when you will tactfully complete that tasks. Completion of tasks will only takes place when it has been done fully. I observed the work in process to finish that tasks goes very smoothly and when it comes to near completion the hindrances arises in the form of procastination like people feels now there is more time to submit the reports or to take the blue prints or rather when the completion of repairation of any machines is done it does not mean that work has completed. The work only gets completed when its tools and other equipments for the repairation of machines has been placed at its original place.

Last time never comes and we loose the oppurtunity though we had done our great tasks but we fails to deliver it in a propoer time only for the procastination which we held at the last moment.

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Intractable Issues

K.F. Sahiwala





We hear ed many times the news which are very difficult to listen or rather to get understand. It is out of perception, beliefs and intractable. One cannot understand how this can happen. We get amazed and shocked to hear the typical news and information.

We need to go insight of this problem and need to redress this suffering's and turmoil of this news. In today's world we get all types of news only related to sorrow, criticism, sufferings, hardships, corruption and exploitation. The world is now no more philantrophic in its nature. Everywhere and every now and than the disasters, untoward and catastrophe events happens which brings blues in to our life. Forget about natural calamities but man made calamities are very brutal and violent in nature.

I shall discuss of my personal incident which happened to me where all the roads and ways were chocked off at the deluge day. News were spread not to come out from your houses because the heavy rain happened to be for next twenty four hours except in case of an emergency. I managed to get an errand with my brother at coastal dock where the security prevented us not to go near. I regretted him and told that it would be better for me to die in the hands of nature.
Why to die in Trains, Buses, Taxis or rather any public places where man made bombs has been clandestinely placed. It is better to give our life to god.

I never get scared of death. Who wants to live in this dark and black world where life is full of dust and waste. Where people makes money in the name of religion, Where there is no respect for elders, no respect for parents and teachers, Artificial life, Kidnapping, Raping, Aassination, rampage and etc.

One has to lead a beautiful life with as much as love and caring from others. Life should be filled up with Joys and delight. There should be a flora and fauna in our surroundings. There should be a happy and great news when someone glue to their TV. Otherwise it would be very hard to live in this demons world.

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Small Task - Big Success.

K.F. Sahiwala





Hi Folks, there lies a big success from the meagre and trival work. Initially it would not be worth to go for it. Afterwards there lies a long way and successful route towards your goal. Gaining lot of experience at the intial stage, gives you a lot of confidence and fortitudeness at a longer stage.

What is to embarss to start with the little work. It is but obivious that certainly you get a good experience to get a fruit in future. Until and unless if you would not strive at your work , you wont get success. The big shots today are there for their contribution for their small work in the past.

Even the former president "Abraham Lincon"hardship and hardwork. Through the small work one grows bigger in future. Make to get the least work and get it fulfilled so as to give you maximum benefits afterwards.

The success in business lies in itself with the proprietor who wants to grow his bussiness. The true bussinessman is who, who never say no to his customer even also for giving free service to customer. The gold and coal mines gets developed only after starting with the small work i.e. boring a small hole in the land.

Nowadays people gets hesitate to do a small work. Many students after taking degrees wants to have a good and decect job with handsome salary. They refused the job for less salary and I dont know what they does.

I had my own experience to share with you that a owner of the hotel was very rigid with his tariffs of his rooms. He never compromise with the rates from his customers. One day came he were forced to shut his hotel but before doing so I had given the suggestions that by lowering your tariffs definately the customers will come and also to make a moderation in his tariffs to suit ones budget.

He then afterwards moderate his tariifs and charged different tariffs depending upon their requirement like for 2 hours. half day, one nights, Duplex deluxe Rooms etc. I rather made him understand that you will not come in to loss but rather you will gain and also you will be expanding your cutomer base and also simultaneously doing advertisement of your hotel. He had compromised with his management and see today his hotel business is going superb.

Why not for acheiving success in business, businessman gives a long term benefits in the form of huge discounts, free samples, more credit periods, lower rates, quality products, sales service in the begining to flourish them afterwards.

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Naam Bade, Darshan Chote.

K.F. Sahiwala
Hi Folks, This article covers of those people who always brag and boast. They show their richness by showing off thier attire in the form of wealth. They throw huge parties, get together and more or less involved in all activities which they can brag and boast.

I had worked as an computer software consultant with many small and medium size traders. They did not hesitate me for any sort. They were regular with their payment and other things why not I was also providing sales services. When I got an inquiry from multinationals, I was amazed and eager to work with them. Afterwards it culminated in to sorrow and sufferings from their side towards me regarding very slow process in their infrastructure. Big companies are held only to give sorrow and sufferings.

It is very difficult to get the payments in government and legal bodies companies. I am very happy working with small compnies. I hesitate or rather stopped in taking even an inquiry with big corporates. So, Finally Naam Bade aur Darshan Chote.

I dont understand how these corporates manage their routines. The same thing is their with our faith and love towards God. We love god and we do charity and other good deeds to make God Happy. Nowadays, also it has become commercialised. People does good deeds only to show their richness to others. Muslims go to Haj. Haj is compulsory only for once in your lifetime.Today people go for several times and make feel others that they are elite and rich.

Once in a village the priests declared to all their people that god has made the presence on their land and declared that he will reward a person who is very generous and kind in all his deeds.There became a huge queue of beggars at the gate of temple for the rich people to give alms to them. These peeople thought that by giving more alms and other stuff to beggars we will be rewarded by god. A stranger passing from that village saw this sceneraio and gave some penny to a beggar without having the knowledge of this event.

He gave penny with his full heart and love to that beggar. Though in his full life time he had never gone to temples to worship god. He made the god to stay him in his heart and during his life time he was doing all good deeds without any intention of any sort of rewards. Finally that stranger was selected for the reward by the almighty.

So, Please be simple and live what you are. Dont ever try to show your wealthiness at the cost of your life. And finally Naam Bade aur Darshan Chote.

Thursday, January 18, 2007

The Decline Of Mumbai Mills

K.F. Sahiwala

Once stood at Lower Parel and Byculla area, I had recognised the textile mills stood in these areas. There were huge source of employement in the city. Now there is no such sceneraio available to look in to these areas.

People used to live happily and natural life, why not, they were very hard working, deligent. There were no computers and experts who were having the knowledge to operate the machines were doing their job gracefully.

I have my own experince of mill workers to share with you. These blue collars are very good by their heart. I really respect them but they are all disappeared as the mills shut down. In place of mills big malls, shopping complex and residential towers had emerged. This is the grim postion of our Indian land.


Indians culture and tradition were ever there for these blue collar people. Nowadays it got so modernised that manufacturing activities had vanished and malls, multiplexes had come in to foreplay.I really love workers and eurchins as they are very good and polite in their hearts.


During my childhood I remember those days af Lalbaug area where people used to go to mills and eating Wada Paav and chilling out at JHUNKAA BHAKAAR. Not to say of BHARAT MATA cinema. Where Marathi Pictures were getting released every friday. I respect Maharashtrians and their culture. Married Women used to tie Mogra Garlands on their back of head, Green bangles and Red Sindoor. Still you can see that glamour in Lalbaug and surrounding areas. Now it is fast vanishing.


Our culture has been getting detoirated in the hands of western culture which is very artifical.

People nowadys are become showy . We always take care of our heriage sites and do want to preserve them so as to remember our past and golden days.Why people never restore their original culture and traditins, occupations which was like a heaven in this lands of India.


This land of our country has been sold off to the western culture by our dirty politicians. They play a dirty game and spoiling our heritage and culture for the sake of money.


I do tell you about my experience at Lower Parel area in the year 1995 where I were used to work as an Accountant in the Printing press. During those days my Boss was undertaking the job of printing work from Kwality Icecreams. We were printing the Icecreams wrappers of Kwality Products. I had a very long Experience of these blue collar workers.


They used to come at thier usually job timings of about 8.30 am in the morning. Before delegating to their work they used to wear thir Job Clothes and after that Puja Path of Ganesha, Durga matta whatever and lighting of agarbattis and Diyas. They were distrubuting prasad among each other. This loveness and kindness are rarely seen in todays modern and mobile world. I really adore and admire their characters and personality which is been due share in our developing our country and to preserve its rights and privildges.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Bollywood Buzz

K.F. Sahiwala



Hi Folks ! This is to tell you why there is so much fuss and buzz of any celebrity. I dont know that why people go in such a long way to interfere in someones life. I am talking of about the bollywood celebrities.





The people are very concern of about their personal life. when they will get married or whether it is a second marriage or not?. Why they go to temples bare foot. Lets all celebrities go to hell why to bother them. They all are paid personalities. They are been paid for their glamour, glory, acting, performance etc.



I mean to say that you should not be so crazy after them. I have seen many people getting crazy after Big B. When they discuss or apreciate, I feel really disgusting about it. He has been paid by us, On the contarary he has to be after us. In business point of view sellers are always after the customers and not vice versa.



Lets discuss some good personalities whom had change and support our daily life like great scientists. Last but not the least even politicians are also very helpful to us. We should discuss of about them their Birthdays, Likings and moreover their personal life.



I always remember the great personalities for thier fortitude and greatness. One should remember those personalities , whom had given their life for good cause. A person is always remember for ever when he comes to use for others. People always reminds him even after his death.



Lets spends no time in intervening the bollywood personalities but to remember those who really does good deeds and to become one like them.