Sometimes, to become an Extra Ordinary

Hi folks want to be a successful bussinessman ? Want to be a No 1 in your business ? Want to make your company grow? These are all related questions that comes in to foray while perspecting the above issues.

Normally, the people tends to go in a systematic ways and approach to achieve the above targets like costs minimisation, quality control, time management, automation, labour costs etc.
These are all prime factors that has to be there for which there is no way out and why not, one cannot oversee these factors. www.AmericanSmallBusiness.com

Apart from the above factors there should be intense with the HRD Department which involves the administration and appproach towards its employees. Routine chores ammendment is fine with the management but besides these there should be more for which it contributes the overall growth and development of the company, like announces the special package for those who finishes their work for lesser time, outing, one day picnic for the staff, recretational activities, etc which could not be the part of their activities.

Inner cost minimisation and towards it if there is an increase in the morale and efficiecy in emplooyees then there is a bound of growth for the company. The sense of belonging has to be created in the minds of the employees .

Like wise in our personal life also there doesn't remain harmony with our family members.
Love, trust, mutual understanding had foregone and they live as they are forced to live with each other. The bond of relationship has to be remove, otherwise it is very difficult to live in the same house. One has to be open with each other as under prescribed boundaries and limits.Besides, fulfilling our daily chores with each other sometimes one has to become an extraordinary to create fun and thus to increase charm and love in one's relationship.

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Life After the Age of 35 years.

Life seems to be very miserable and confusing at the time of starting carrers, application for jobs, marriages, after marriages and then after the future of our kids. It is never ending process and continues. It is non stop and we people are endulged in fulfilling our responsibilties.

It is more to be complex and comprehend at the beginning of our teenagers as we had finished schooling, then comes for addmission in colleges and universities. After than that the confusion and stress comes for the jobs. After than that the choosing the correct life partners than the housing problems, family affairs, and other stuff. After that kids and their education. We never become tension free in life as it continues one after the another.

But as I said the life becomes very smooth and comfortable after the age of 35 years since all the process which he has to get completed has been almost done and that to successfully. The man looks more smart and handsome as compared to teenagers as he is very well secured with his life,wife, jobs & childrens as exceptional some are not happy with their jobs, family, financial problems as it is a different issues.

If all these above process can go along with the time and as he gets good results out of it so the man is complete in himself accurately after the age of only 35. As been said there are ups and downs in life and as rarely someone gets benefits at the age of 35,. I think only the Luckiest person gets happiness at this age otherwise there is a roaring and crying with some or other sorts of issues. A man doesn't gets all the things in a good ways. He suffers from one sort or other, like he is there with a good job but not good wife and vice versa and there the frustutation begins.

Normally, at the age of 35 a man can complete the whole process properly as he gets the resources in a proper way, otherwise his life will always be in tense even at the age of 75.

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The Creditworthiness of a Wealthy Person.

Hi Folks, This is wanna something related to show of to others in th form of attire, status, royality etc. I don't understand is that it counts to others in quality. Quality does not mean to lead a comfortable life or rather to put an image of an elite to others. Money, richness cannot judge the worthiness of a person.

On the Contrary they are very worst than to the ordinary people. They (Big tycoons) are very greddy and miser in their dealings. They are only there to accumulate weath but cannot give to others in the form of donation, charity or by helping others in the monetary form. They are there only to spend money on gambling, discotheques, Horce Races, Kitty parties, Buying all prestigious and valuable stuff. They make cry to their employees, workers by making them helpless and extracting very hard and more work from them.

I thought that they are ever happy in their life than to our ordinary people, but I was wrong they live a very hectic life and thay are always puzzle with their life. Their business mostly of them goes on a rolling basis. They are in a deep debt with the banks and financial institutions. Inspite of this they dont understand but always wants to show their richness by making a show of them with buying new bunglows, flats, large scale parties and wedding, so their reputation does not get disturbed among their circle.

They take due care of their prestige and status and they always maintain their status in the market and in their family at the expense of their life. They are very poor and sad from inside and always feel insecure with their life. What is the use of this wealth which cannot give happiness and comfort. They are very egostic and never manage themselves in low key areas.

They does not get a sound sleep but always getting worry with some sort or other. With this their heath gets affected and gets attached with many dreadful diseases. More the person is wealthy more he is close to diseases. I had seen many posh people consume more medicines than to hard working labour jobs. This is a lesson to you that money makes a person arrogant he loses his own identity and treating others as slaves. He becomes restful and so he gets caught by many diseases.

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Adaptation for to go in the Changing Scenerios

Hi Folks ! There is need to be careful in this changing scenerio. I had observed a person who dare was a biggest enemy with his stenchmen and after couple period of time they again came close and afterwards again seperated and again came foreword. I did not understand their repo with each other. After with deep intitution it happen me to understand that in this world no one remains constant as every differs and change at a very specific time period.

To keep on going in to this world remember one proverb "lets forgive and forget others " . Not to remain in to the dogma of our principle line of code of conduct. The occean sometime become wild and stormy but it also have other shades of peace and calm. The best example is of the occean which keeps on changing its form from one to another like stormy, demon, wild, silent, slowy, etc. It is very important to be dynamic in this world you have to compromise with yourself to keep on going in to your life but not to that extent that it costs or need to pay price for some sort.

The management of a company was so superb that it can survive with any changing political, economical, natural scenerios. Why not because the dogma of the objectives was not fixed. One has to be flexible for others happiness and to our own habit. Remove the stigma of Stubborn from yourself and anything can happen at any point of time.

The agenda of the meeting was fixed that not to be part with their customers who have not cleared their dues mean time but it can be revoke after sometime only after detail study and the demand of changing time. Time plays very important role and time only says worthiness of clients. People are not bad but time makes them bad and they are coerce to do that work because of their dire needs.

There once travelled three persons in the yatch belonging to the different caste. The storm had taken its toll and they were toiled but indeed went in to vain. At the last moment they all three prayed to their respective diety for their saviour. Christian got acknowledge from his saviour. Muslim also got response from his saviour. The last one who was Hindu was a stong worshipper of Lord SHANKAR. His dogma remain fixed with his code of principle of worship that he died but never taken help from others who had come in betweem in disguise of fisherman, aircraft, loundge. His intellect said that LORD Shankara personally come to save him.

After his death, his soul departed to heavenly world where he met SHANKARA to remorse his death. SHANKARA told him that he knows that you are my true follower and I love my all followers. I came to your rescue but you denied and stuck to your dogma.

Turning point can happen at any time and at any momment but if you are flexible in your perception you can pursue this golden oppurtunity at an ease. God helps us that it does not mean that there will be rain of money. Rain of money will be their in the form of great business deal, unexpected flow of income, lottery winnings, legal heir in deceased property, Discounts, profits, increament, promotions, lieutments etc.

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Happiness is to make yourself happy.

Happiness not lies in attaining the goals or desired hopes. It lies with what you are and your present scenerio and surroundings. I always point out the most relevant points in almost all my posts of spiritual and positive thinking.Spiritual people are least effected in their ups and down in thier life rather they are with the melodious tune with the almighty.

They adjust their present scenrio and are are contend and happy with thier life. We normal people has a swinging mood of happiness ana sadness. The strong people can be called who knows to adjust with materilastic and mundane and calm down their nerves to soothe thier inner soul and intellect. They never get annoyed, happy, sad and arrogant as they think themselves that they are the actors in the drama and link this life which is full of happiness and sorrow as their stage which they want to perform in any changing situation.

Spiritual people prayers differ from our prayers. They meditate and link with the god to have a loveful and sweet conversation with him as we pray only for our hopes, desires, achievement which is never to be get ended. We people are very selfish and only ask for more and more to GOD instead of thanking and grateful to him with our present life and comforts.

I can narrate the best example of my friend who always seem to be very happy to others since he is a only son of the big business tycoon. I once asked him that you are lucky of having a big business, prestigiuos life & good comforts, he complained that he is very back as against with his compitetors in his business. He want to become a No 1 in his business field. He always complain to GOD for lacking of his knowledge, experience, know how & expertise in his business as compared to his competitors and thats fore his mind gets confused and always to be found in dilemma stage. Though he tends to remain happy from outside but inside he is half complete and lost his feeling of senses.

I made him understand not to under estimate yourself, rather stop brooming aroung your problems and grievences. Console yourself first, work as per your capacity, have a faith in GOD, dont look up but always looks down the people that atleast you have that advantage to live in palace and having a rich palate of dishes and food. Dont complain to GOD and fell regress as compare to your competitors but thanks to almighty for fixing him in the banner of his under arms and to remain always with him in the pink of health.

He practised the way which I taught him and soon his perception and attitude of life got changed with the happiness and spiritual sparks which he had from inside which was also getting tuned with his outer appearance.

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Goods Deeds, What God Needs.

Good Deeds, Indeed Good deeds to say is to pray to god and observing rituals. In a complete sense it include all those stuff which makes you feel pure and better so as to able to live happily and to others. I had seen Gurus, Saints, Sanyasis, Maulana who are very religious and dear and near to God. Its really to believe are they happy from inside or pious in their dealing with others.

Enchanting Mantras and Rosary does not make one to come near to God. What God wants do all they people knows. They only know to worship almighty one has to go to Temples, Gurudwara, Masjid, Mosques, Church, Fire Temples, Pagoda etc. Worship in the real sense is to make capable to ourself in such a way as you cannot swing your mood in any circumstances. Anger, Greed, Arrogant make the man Evil. God like only those who can empower with all these evils.

To remain calm and intellect is the prerequsite to come close to almighty. I can narrate the very good example of Mr Swami Vivekanand, Who once visited to British Council at London. To show his generousity and populace of him he never got annoyed when the Bhagwat Geeta was placed at the bottom of all the religious books. The Veteren Officer insulted him by telling that Bible is more Popular and believable than Bhagwat Geeta. That's Why it is been placed on the top of all religious books.

Mr Swami Vivekanand did not lose his temper and he laughed and slowly he pushed the Bhagwat Geeta little to make all the books fall at one go. He explained and said that of on all the books bhagwat Geeta is the base or Foundation. If some one would there at his place he would make the situtation tense and wild and put unnecessary violent at the council. Everybody got admire with him and praised his intellect.

Even helping other in their rescue is the biggest prayers of all the prayers. Once in a temple the saint gone to a pool of water to have a bath for his session of mantras and artis to begin in a short time. When he saw the lady getting drowned in the pool, he abondoned his prayers for the sake of a lady to get her save from the death.

So be wanna become the children of God by only throwing the tantrums and becoming spiritual as shown in the above examples.

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Ways to Generate more income

I have noticed many people who are very eager to earn more as to make easy going with their livelihood. Working hard do not put you in to loss, but extremely too hard can cause a subtle effect. There should be always to maintain a balance in life. Too much or too less can put you in to harm.

There are side effects for any cause. Working more than 8 hours in a day puts your health in a pathetic conditions and you will be in the hands of many dreadful diseases. So one has to be very careful to take up with any issue, one has to study its pros and cons.

I can give you the best example of my neighbour who had come for my advice to give job to his wife from my circle. I told him that doing a job is not easy and that to ladies. He narrated me that there is no solution to run our house. I gave him a niche idea why you dont cut down your costs in your routine life so as to save more money and there by generating more income.

Cutting down your costs or expenses can give you better relief and peace of mind and thereby generating more income Like suppose

1 ) If you are non- veg put in a habit to become veg as non veg foods are more expensive and more over veg foods enhances your health and put you out from many dreadful diseases.

2 ) Try to make home made dishes as freaking out would be more expensive and time consuming.

3 ) Like wise for shorter distances go by walking instead of using vehicles there by reducing the costs of your fuel and moreover you would be getting good exercise to your body in the form of walking.

4 ) House wives also generate income in the form of saving as with office goers women in the form doing the household chores like cooking, washing, cleaning, buying groceries, caring, supervising, imparting education to their kids. As office goers women don t get the time and as they keep maids for which they have to incur higher expenses.

5 ) Changing habits and life styles also make contribution in the form of savings. Lead a normal and simple life which make you feel better and comfortable.

6 ) Showy people spend extravagant to show its prestige and there by incuring heavy expenses and loss.

7 ) Meditation, yoga, prayers makes your mind cool and relaxed and you will spend only on those subjects which really minds you.

There are many ways to make your expenses reduce but it should not go in that way that make you to put it in a great hardships otherwise the life will become dull and boring and make other people seem to believe that he is so miser that he cant intake proper food as to save his money.

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Travelling - Mania

This is with reference to the trips done. People travel from one place to another with reference to holidays, relatives, native place or casual trips.

In journey we come across with many people and make friendship with them. We become so close that we get indulged with them and we cannot like by leaving them aside. Whereever we go we take with them. I remember my honey moon trip to Mahableshwar there we came across with a couple whose nature was very similar to us.

We used to had Lunch & dinner with them and for the sight seeing also we two couples were together. We used to share our feelings and opinions about our martial life and other issues with them. How we had spend those golden days that when I recollect those memories I really feel to get back those days again in my life. Really one can get very close to each other especially durng the journey.

There were many trips there we had done afterwards. Not to mention those trips where we made the friends in train journey. What had happened afterwards that all these freindships turned futile. They were the friends only with the journey and when journey got over they didnt remember and had gone to their real life.

Trips and journeys are forgetable, but the sweet memories spend with someone is not easily forgetabble and to retain those memories one has to keep in touch with those journey friends to make those memories in to reality.

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Good Speaker is the one who Preaches to give Speech

Hi Folks, I could not wait to tell or rather very eager to inform you that all which happens to be a seminar, conference, Trade fairs, Get Together, Speech, Summons are held to show or to teach a good path to one 's life. The preacher who address to their followers on any issues related to one's life, points out the defects and rectify or gives the solution in general to thier followers on any subjects which relates to them.

Whether these leaders, preachers really implements the morality in their own life or rather they are there only to come up with their shows and to narrate their noble and divine ideas to the public in general. The ideas and values becomes noble not only to share and communicate with others but to make those ideas to incorporate in our own daily life.

I have come across with many leaders and organisers who are unscrupulous and they are there only for the role to give speeches and arrange seminars. If one to give any sppeeches on morality or spirituality, they have to check themselves first whether those moralities are presnt in them. It is very easy to give advice to others but it is very difficult to incorporate those advice in ones life.

I attended a seminar on health and holistic approach, I got so stuck and amazed with the speaker for their noble and divine speeches. I personally got so emotional to thanks them for giving those noble ideas on the health & holistic approach. Then, there create a doubt in my mind to know whether these ideas and thoughts given by them, gets really implemented by them in their own life or rather they are there only for the speeches and advice.

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Silent is Bliss

Hi Folks. Todays world is very dramatic and artificial. there is no true and perfect relationship. There always lie unscrupulous and disorted tie ups. People today are very much immune to routines and forcibly living their life not for the sake of thier own but for others.

Happiness and bliss has gone from this world. People tends to remain happy from outside but in their uncouncious mind sorrow and sins settles. Selfishness, greatness, arrogantness always settles in our mind and therefore the result comes that peace has completely wiped out from our life.

Silent is the bliss. Silent or rather peace makes the mind relaxes and gains the intellectual. I can narrate an example of one of my friend who always remain happy and cheerful in whatever the circumstances he meets me. I asked the reason for this about his youthfulness and gentleness. He told me I take eveything to a stride and doesnt get involved in an unimportant issues. I free my mind from all the worries which comes as an obstacles. Obstacles prevents your mind to develop and futher degenrates in making new ideas. His business got developed so much day by day now he is earning crores of rupees.

He always fufils the demands of others., Like he always give raise to his employees as per their desires. If he opposed and objects his opponents he would make his mind tense and confuse.In such senerio his mind gets rotates or retaliates with his past issues rather developing new thoughts and ideas.

Secondly, he always wants to detach himself from others. He always like to remain reserve and lonely. He likes loneliness very much as he gains bliss from loneliness, as loneliness is always be there when there is a silent. He defines loneliness as meditation for developing ourself and to remain content with others. It is rather to put in different way that silent is minds yoga where you come in touch or contact with God.

Today no one gets the time to remain with oneself completely in isolation. Eveybody has to come in contact with one and another. Our minds works for every hour except at sleep. So one has to devote atleast 5 to 10 minutes away from this mundane to rejenuavate our inner self so as to gain bliss. The good example is take 10 minutes nap in the afternoon or rather do your prayers or take a lone brisk walk or sit in isolation to make you free from mundane and keep you fresh and lively.

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Effective Time Management.

Hi Folks ! Time plays a very important role in ones life. Once time has gone you will be looser. You cannot recall your past time back. A perfect man does all his work at an accurate time. He is very efficient and properly handles and tackles his task at correct time.

Time management does become a hour of subject matter. I have seen many person who always complain about time. They in fact don't have any time for any issues. They always crawl upon for any work and could not complete at an exact time. They even dont have a time for their food. It is all sheer nonsense and could not be said to be a perfect and manageble man. A man does manage himself for his no complain of time. He does all his work at a proper time and thus ready for the new work to be carried upon.

I have seen many of my friends who doesn"t have a time and always complain that time is flying away like anything and could not be able to accomplish their task. There should be a solution for that, I understand that thier vocation needs atleast 10 hours of work and not to say the time goes for travelling to and fro from office & residence. Its really a very high time to see and allocate and to give time to all the issues without only concentrating only at one partyicular issues.

The rules to be followed for an effective time planning are :-

1 ) Change of Habits and life Styles, stay away for time being to your daily routines and set
some time for the new issues.
2 ) Delegating those areas that are less important.
3 ) Avoid personal visits and clear your doubts and work on the telephone itself.
4 ) Set your goals and agendas for your forth coming days as to avoid wastage of timings .
5 ) In Short Delegation, Planning setting priorities, staying away from your trivial work and
setting agendas are useful skills that can help anyone.

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The More you Want , The More Difficulty you face

Hi Folks, I"ll Discuss today about how to remain static, spiritual in your life. Spiritual people are always satisfy and happy from inside. They are melodious and spend a luxurious life. I have seen many poor people always happy. They are self contented with their basic necessities and they never cry for more. More really curse you and makes ones life miserable. Why more, if you are happy from inside with your present situation you need not be so eager to run for more or some or other.

This some or other will be an added advantage or benefit for you if you can adjust or rather satisfy or rather more happy with your present scenerio. One has not to be arrogant and not to be boast of your status. One of my friends always tends to say whenever someone asks him about his business and standard of living. He gutters and remarks with an pleasent note that by the grace of GOD I am very happy and thankful to GOD for giving me such a nice and wonderful life.

He always prays to GOD not for his achievement and advancement but thanking him for his present life and wants to ever remain in this status and begging him for the sinful deeds which he mistakenly did from his unknown senses. A beggar who was so hungry not even getting food and water for so many days and let it to be put aside for not having his clothes to wear. In this shabby condition he atleast thanks to GOD for giving this air to breathe.

We have to learn this lesson that if one become spiritual and follow the good deeds with positive thinking and with attachment to GOD one gets ample of energy to remain patience, righteousness, gentleness, positivness, straightness in building the relationship with others. A yogi is not at all affected with the sceneraio going around it. His mind and soul are in the tune melodious tune with the almighty.

So need to practice a real meditation is first to have your own insight to check out your loopholes and slowly slowly with dfue prayers and self meditation can burn those negativoity. Once when negativity will disappear then there comes with a slow and slight tune of happiness and joy in the form of your lifestyle. You would feel happy with small issues and with your present surroundings. Forget about delicious foods and lifestyles. You would even feel with a great taste Simple DAL BHAT chappati and rice.

So why there is so hoopla with more and more or happen to be grow more in your life . Wanna achieve your success and make yourself happy with the present situation and see even a slight gain you get will create you more happy and delightful from inside.

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Positve VS Negative

Hi Folks ! Better the person is better his managment. Management is to deal with oneself tasks and his ambience. The success only comes to your way when you deal with the positve attitude to others. In your life one has to take care first for others. I found many people who really takes cares for others. They take their ownself to a stride for others.

Positive thinking makes a person perfect. Perfect in all ways in terms of his health, emotions, attitudes and feelings towards others. A good example is a short stanzas where by a teachers places a white sheet of paper on a black board and splitting a black ink dot on it and turning the attention of the students towards the black board. He asks one of a student to notice on the board and asks what did he find. He pointed to a black dot on a paper. The teacher informed him why he could not see the full white paper and only that tiny black spot.

Today we find here and there that people gets indulged in wrong thinking and his attire and attitude also gets changed in to negative. There are conflicts and disputes in the name of religion. All are wanted to be in a top among others. This creates a lot of negativity among us. Our own brothers fights themselves and become a blood thirst for each other in the name for deceased property. Why there is so hue and cry in general. No one wants to come down or put his low attire and esteem.

I can narrate to you with one incident which stopped me in wrong doing by keeping the mind balance and positive attitude. Where not by mistake a person got knocked by my motor cycle. That person indulged me in to dispute but witthout uttering a word I accepted and said sorry to that guy who then remained cooled and said that he knew that it was not my mistake but he was in tense with the other issue and for that he was deppresed.

One always should know another mind. We should always take it easy for wrong doings of others. Rather taking revenge we should feel pity on him and estimate that he might be suffering from a lot of trouble for that he is passing some of the deppression to us in the form of wrong doing.

You know the story of a women and her six month old child where her husband had petted a mangooese to take care of her child. His wife had a wrong and negative emotions towards that mangooese. They lived in a deep forests where there were a lots of snakes.

One day that lady killed that mangooese thinking that he had killed his child when she saw the red blood of cobra on his body. Atlast she came to know that he has not killed his child but a black cobra which had come to kill his child.

Negative thinking and thoughts spoils ones relation and there is a huge hue and cry in the family. It is like go on saying a one dirty fish makes the whole well dirty.

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